I'm with starsky; I don't believe her, either. She's found a way to blame you for her A; I only did it because you didn't fight for me...I waited until then (even WEEKS after YOU abandoned me to start up with OM.
No, I know you want to believe it because it's less painful but none of that even makes sense.
SS, there was no blame in her statement... There was no "You did this"... There was a simple statement of fact, that while the relationship between them WAS inappropriate, she didn't really decide to pursue it heavily until she thought we were done.
If I'm naive for believing this, then so be it... I still believe that no matter if she's lying about the timing or not, the fact that she's admitted to it was a big and important step.
