Am starting to get ready for Retrouvaille this weekend and want to make sure that I get the most out of it, that whatever happens with my H I learn to communicate better and get better insight into my own issues. LITB mentions going there and busting my tail. In this context, what does that mean? How can I make sure that I get the most out of it and focus on my own faults and issues and less on Hs perceived flaws? Any help from Retrouvaille vets would be most appreciated
