Thanks Sunny! It takes lots and lots of work to stay positive... still a crying mess sometimes, but not as often. You'll get there too.
TVS~ LOL glad I'm not the only one picking out the analogies with MLC and OZ! However, I think it's interesting because I think Dorothy's too young for a MLC... just saying...
Here's to hoping they click their heels together and realize there's no place like home!!
news on the home front: Had a surprisingly nice evening with H last night. Actually watched 2 movies together... well the first one I just kinda plopped myself down on the couch while we were eating and hadn't planned on staying for the whole thing, but it caught my attention so I did. He was watching Machine Gun Preacher, actually a good movie, and I kept sitting there thinking, really are you not getting the irony of you watching this movie?!?!
After that movie was over he asked if I wanted the tv, I said no I didn't mean to intrude. He said I wasn't and asked if I wanted to watch something else with him. So we ended up watching Cabin in the Woods (LOVE Chris Hemsworth!!).
I may have used my powers of seduction again.... and he said the line he hasn't said in awhile so I was hoping he was over it, "We shouldn't be doing this." I didn't say anything, I resisted the urge to smack him and say No WE should be doing this we are married!!! So yea me, I resisted saying something that would have sent him into super pissed!
Didn't see him this morning because remember, we spend every week day morning at the gym now. OH! and I just found out from a friend, that zombie run next weekend he was talking about has been canceled.
H seemed ok tonight, I brought up his laundry and left it in the basket sitting in front of his door so he wouldn't get upset if I set foot in "his" room. He thanked me for it (he had actually helped me hang up my laundry last night).
Oh I apparently did NOT get the memo that it is still not ok for me to replace HIS toothbrush when replacing mine. Apparently it is annoying to him, you know, because he's a big boy and can do it himself. *rolling eyes* I told him it's no big deal, they come in 2 packs.
Then I went out to the kitchen and handed him a pocket knife my mom had brought down with her today for him. I told him it was from mom, and he looked like he didn't want it, told me to keep it, asked where it came from. I told him I already have one and I said it's been in their lost and found for many months so they get rid of the stuff after awhile and she knows he likes knives. He did take it, but look annoyed.
Otherwise with him he still has himself thrown into shooting, which is good, he loves it, and he does well at it, I'm worried about him when the matches come to an end with winter upon us, he also has a hard time with shorter days.... I'll just keep praying...
As for me, been doing well. Enjoyed my 3 day weekend, went shopping with mom today and I was able to give her her birthday gift and I treated her to lunch.