LA, I know how frustrating some of your H's behavior can be. It is hard when they do not accept their role, or continue to say how hard they've tried. Our difference is that we are trying to DB, do 180s, not more of the same. They don't understand that philosophy.
If you are seeing small changes, keep at it. It may take him a while to reciprocate the affection. Have you seen any small signs?
I think what ever you do, it is going to be hard to try to get across what you were lacking without blaming, or at least that is how he will take it. If you can get him to see what you need, then maybe he will start to work on that at some point.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
