her strategy with dealing with our divorce has been to keep me out of site and out of mind. she is very good at compartmentalizing her emotions. my point is that in a lot of cases there are children involved which michelle says to use as an opportunity to db. but without that kind of exposure and with an ex wife that is content to stay in separate worlds how do i bridge that gap? how do i get that exposure to her? it has been nearly 2 years and are situation has changed very little. my hope is that with the space and perspective she could be ready to see me as a friend on some level (as per our conversation that we had recently that i outlined above)i just want to know how to keep that door open and what strategy some of you might have used in the past to keep the lines of communication from shutting off.
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