Staying off the ride 1 - mixed signals

[Wendylon]

I asked a similar question of Wendylon yesterday because I wonder if we focus more on negative things due to the situation and sometimes it's just the way they are.

That's exactly what I thought when I read Busting's question to you. It was really helpful to have you ask me that question and it looks as if you're realising too that your H has a history of not always being very communicative even when things were on an even keel.

I'm sorry your'e not feeling well and hope you're on the mend.

My sense from a distance is that you would do better and it could help your sitch if you could be a bit dimmer. It's easy to say from here. I know the feeling so well of wanting to do something in the hope of getting a response that will feel reassuring and soothe the pain of insecurity. The fix, however, is always short-lived and doesn't ultimately address the issue of insecurity.

Hang in there. Can you get attention from friends and family instead?