How about this: my expectation is that my H will not contact me. If he does, it's nice. If he doesn't, I didn't expect him to so I'm not disappointed, but more importantly, I'm not OBSESSING...sound good?

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing