I know you've lived through that hell a lot longer than I did & through your determination and staying power you are still in your M.
I just had to draw line, because I couldn't live like this anymore.
I think you just know when you are ready to move on, you have to get real detachment first.
Her choices will come back to haunt my W, her choices, her life, her bed etc etc...
Although it's been a crappy couple of days I'm strong enough to get through this.
A strongly agree with all of that ^^^
And yes, we all have our own limits. You stood for your M. For that, you should be proud. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your decision to be done.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce