So...I'm posting this on here first b/c I don't want to make a rash move...
So since I've gotten the ILYBINILWY talk so I should be doing LRT...but LRT is about detachment. There's the 180's I should be doing, which is the opposite of LRT (except I know I have to stop snooping and can't say ILY) because she wants to feel wanted. We used to text all the time, talk all the time, she even told me that when I pulled back from texting that it hurt her, that I needed to talk to her. So I'm supposed to be upbeat around her and text her and pull out more of the beta qualities and make her feel wanted...she just last night told me she feels like I don't want her around...
So, I want to text the stuff below to her. I want to send it each break as a different text. Is this chasing behavior? Am I best off just posting it here and forgetting about it? Or, since this isn't marriage, since she feels abanonded, do I send it? Do I take out the sexual aspect at towards the end? We loved sex together...ugh
Texts:
You keep asking me "who is she?" I want to confess, there is somebody. I just can't get her out of my head.
I've known her for a little while now and we butt heads sometimes. We're both a little brash but romantics at heart.
She's smart, like scary smart sometimes. She's funny too and I like it when she laughs. She's got this great smile and beautiful face.
Don't get me wrong, she's got this banging body too, curves in the right places, it's perfection and I dream about holding it.
I really want this girl in my life. I know she's into me, no matter how much she tries to deny it, she loves me and I love her.
Her name is *girlfriends name*.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
