Accepting reality, moving on with my life

[breakdownbill]

Thanks for that cutter.

Yeah I read that article and I got a lot out of it. Some really good points made by people commenting on quotes from al turtles article.

Yep, I was the avoider, my W was the clinger, our roles reversed and now she has clung on to this OM.

I felt better spending time with one of my friends last night, felt a bit low today, but need to get my head together for my course.

I think we are going to have to separate very soon and as a short term solution, i'm going to suggest that we split staying in this house with the kids. My W will stay here for 4 nights, I will stay here for 3.

I think for the short term that would work financially, plus the kids get to stay in their own house all the time.

What do you think about that separation proposal?

Bill