Why don't you give it 6 months before you jump into other life-stressors like buying a house, moving, re-blending families? Maybe the kids need a break from the roller-coaster.
You and W can have the fun of dating and clandestine sex.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss