Another voice of support for you sunny. Be strong, my man, You can do this, you have to.
Thanks FY -- you rock and it seems we are in the same part of our marital journeys together -- lets pray for each other.
I am not sure I understand DBing completely - they say to validate and agree with everything they say but in this case I am not so I am doing it but very confused.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!