Yes i know and i did feel like that the first few days. She explained to me that she has spoken to her boys and they are both good with the situation. The older one i was most worried about even asked me to come down and work on his mini bike with him. The hesitation on there part was that when we lived together before i had all these rules and was hard on them. So yes i am sure they would still prefer it be just them and there mom but W went on to say that they would be ok with it. She also said that the oldest told her that he really did not care but he wanted her to make up her mind.

Yes custody case is still pending. We apoke about that and i am going to keep her as far away from that as possible. My W has spent some time with my oldest and they both appear to be in a much better place. They even spent last night making dinner together.

So i guess in short it feels like everything is coming together all at the same time. My W has tended not to talk to her family about our seperation and the fact that she opened up to her father and told him we were working things out so we could be a family again spoke volumes to me.

I have never stopped loving my W and to have her responding the way she is lets me know she is serious about being a family again.


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13