Cheers FY. Yes, I have no choice but to stand my ground. I just hope its not been the nail in the coffin. It is v tough and the sad thing is I understand her predicament.
But backing down is not an option now. It wld cost too much. I do think this will make or break moment in the future. One of those things that she will look back on and resent, or respect me for.
But time will only tell. For the moment I need to try and difuse this so that we can get back to at least an amicable status.
I think we prob do need some space after this to cool off. I stayed calm by the way. I have tried to be assertive and explain my decision. I said I was not looking for her to agree, but that she should accept it as I wld not re-consider. That I understood her position and anger.
For the record this has been an awful decision to make! One of the worst.
But thanks for the support. It is helping get me through this one.
