You already said it twice AT. How often do you have to state the obvious?
When you try to fix things your wrong.
When you do not try to fix things your wrong.
No win situation.....
Let her figure out that she needs to fix her issues.
She wants you to pursue. For that is the relationship dynamics she knows where she is in control. Do not let the hard won equality slip out of the mix due to a reset of the clock because you saw her. Allow her the opportunity to choose to pursue you.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!