If you give in now you've lost all future credibility. Any time she wants something you’ll get the same treatment. Add to that you're likely to end up with the extra debt.
I’m pretty sure that you believe that giving in will not fix the marriage, so why do it?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
