My Most Important Week Yet

[Arsene]

Yeah AT, I for one agree with Crazyville. We are here to save our marriages and to continue our lives with these people we "claim" to love more than anything yet too often we get carried away perhaps by our anger and frustration and end up thrashing these people we love so dearly.

If the hurt that was inflicted by the WAS is simply too great to handle, then we shouldn't be here fighting for them. That's where we need to show empathy and try to understand where they are coming from. Of course, they have made mistakes, they might be weak and stupid right now, but if we want a chance at saving the marriage, it starts with our attitude towards our WAS now, while they are like that and we are hurting.