It [censored] but she has to sort this one out on her own. I don't hear you allowing her to find her own bottom. I know how scary it is, but the marriage is doomed otherwise. She's in a foggy fog if she is MLC AND Alcoholic. She's doing what alkies do, they drink to forget and escape. Let her.
No such thing as a Happy Addict. She will reach the truth faster if you get outta her way.
I only speak from experience. In my marriage, I'm seeing how sick I was. My husband and I were equally crazy and his pulling away has been a gift because I'm able to see clearly what's His craziness and what's My craziness.
Stay on your side of the street. Clean it up. Let her create a relationship with your son. If she's drinking, do you really want her around your son anyway??? Protect him from her disease.
The truth always comes out at some point. Finds its way to the surface. Let Go and Let God. You are stronger than you think!! You can do this one step at a time.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
