Acceptance - My next challenge.

[Arsene]

Addendum to ACT TWO

Here is something else which I just recalled from the pool table discussion.

Since the beginning of the sitch 2 years ago, whenever W said she wanted to leave but she didn't know and she wished I'd just let her go, I'd always told her that if she could look me straight in the eyes and tell me she no loner loved me, I would let her go and not try to convince her otherwise. The idea was always that if she wasn't sure, she should just stay in the marriage, that she could always leave later if she chose to do so.

Last night, when she told me a was making thing more difficult for her I asked her again. I told her I would make it easier and just let her go if she can look me in the eyes and tell me she doesn't love me anymore. She just went silent and then moved on to something else. It might not be significant but I see it as a small thing going for me.

Also, She texted me today for the first time about something which is not D8 or logistic related. She texted to tell me about a man I had met a few times who had died. Actually, I didn't even know his name. he was someone who worked in a music store as repairman. He'd worked on my guitars a few times years ago.