The joint bills was something i agreed too when we first separated and some of them I cant get rid of but the others I can. as for doing things for her...i was doing the 180 where i was being there for her since i wasnt there for her during the marriage. That and her love language is act of service. Also, my coach agreed that I should help around if she was willing to let me but that was before this all came to light.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012