Oh..I forgot to mention another one of the mixed signal he's done recently. He brought 24 red roses to my job with two cards. He said he truly loves me and not sure what is wrong with him. Said he wanted us to work on our relationship and to be patient with him. Two days later his is crying and talking about separation. It hurt me so bad to see him cry like that. I've never seen him in so much pain. So hard for me to deal with his rollercoaster of emotions and cope with his infidelity at the same time. I don't know how to respond. All I can do is tell him I understand (validate his ever changing emotions) and say I will not interfer with his decisions. He's a train wreck and so am I. I must detach..any more suggestions?
