Thanks for the reply Wendylon. I could join them right after work. Cake would be later so I wouldn't miss that. Maybe I shouldn't discount her comment but also not get my hopes up either. I think this may be the hardest stage I'm in right now. No movement and her saying on Friday she is trying to save to move out.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out