FY thanks. I keep thinking not to reply. But when she starts confusing her events from her previous marriage with ours I feel I need to point that out to her. I would not be disagreeing with how she feels. But making it clear I will not be confused with her ex H.
In someways I think the letter is a treasure as she has finally told me how she feels and why. I felt like the first few weeks were an act on her part. i.e Keep things sweet with H, find house, move out, I never have to tell him what I really think of him etc etc. I could see the anger even then and she has started to let it out the last few days. This is how she really feels .
I think this (and more) will have to come out of W before she can even think of seeing me a different way. So in some ways thats a positive? right?? Im taking what I can get at the moment
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