My Story WAW due to Gaming Addiction

[twisted9999]

Weekend was good and bad ( clearly there was some bad since I am up at 3:30am unable to sleep).
The good was the zoo was great. Me and the kids had so much fun. I took on 3 kids by myself and had zero problems. We went and ate afterwards and played for little bit in the backyard after I dropped them off.

The bad..... Well my fears about this other guy are confirmed. Someone i know overheard conversation with my wife and her friend talking about dating during a separation. She even went to a priest in our church and asked about dating and sex during a separation leading to divorce. Basically he said dating was ok just not sex ( we are catholic). She didn't like his answer because she is a adult and it would make dating difficult. She went on to talk about this other guy. Nothing has happened and they just talk after church but she wishes he would ask her out and is even thinking about inviting him to my youngest kids party in nov. she talked about how he is always doing things and keeps busy and seems like a fun person to be around.

I am not sure what to do at this point. I have been bending over backward for her. Basically doormat mode. Paying her tv bill, having joint bills because it is cheaper for her. If she needs something done i have taken the initiative and did it.... Like fix stuff around the house, cut grass, pick stuff up at the store for her, etc. I do make her initiate conversation and rarely ever call her unless I need to but I can clearly see what I am doing is not working.

I was wondering why it went from we have a chance to no chance at all. Looking back her doubts about reconciling it started when I first found out about this other guy. I am lost and need help because right now we get along and it is nice but feel like I am being used.