Roughenough so glad you found it. And i would have to say it has done wonders for me. W over last few days has done a 180 and has decided i am the one she wants:-) i think me basically letting go and being more confident has opened her eyes. We still have some healing to do but she wants us to be a family again.
I know i cant go back to the old me as i was way too needy and tried to control everything. Letting her lead the way and we just might be stronger than ever. I did get a little down tonight thinking about her seeing someone else but i know it is in past and it will not do anyone any good to think about that.
So grateful for all the support and feedback i have received on here. It has not been easy and hoping to be one of the success stories. I love my W and so glad i did not completly give up!
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13