Hi Snookee, I can relate too. I keep thinking that me and H have a long history and we loved each other so much, him and OW just have like...1 year history...(it's so long to me already actually) that I hope he will come to his sense....But I don't know, they happened during our roughest year, so.... I tried a few things and didn't get much result...I can only only work on myself now, I feel sad about it....but it's a good thing to me after all i guess. I'm still searching for ways to make myself better. Keep updating!