We live and learn Rough. I also have a hard time "validating" or just listening in general. I guess part of it is asking them to clarify or expand on what they say without trying to butt in to tell them we know what they are saying or how they "should" be thinking instead, or even what WE think about it. It's not easy and it doesn't come naturally if you've never communicated this way before. We're learning mate.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then