AT.

Pup said it best on another thread about a very good friend of ours Pearl

This is what she did :

"Look, I'm not telling you what to do. You're a grown man and you can decide to do whatever you want. I'm only telling you what I need in a mate, and it's 'X', 'Y' and 'Z'. Whether or not YOU can be those things is completely up to you. Please let me know, though."

And she did that while being very consistent about the hard boundary of "I will not be in any relationship with a third person in it."

And then she stuck to it. And he responded.
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I have no idea why some people now want to put the questions of doubt in your head and talk you into limbo.


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unconditional love is awesome!