AT's wife is now learning that she is not in-charge anymore.
She probably never was.
We don't know what she's learning. We know what AT is trying to teach her but we don't know what she might learn from this. The whole "teaching a lesson" concept reeks of control and one-upmanship. Not usually the best way to build or repair a R.
CV, I agree. If I felt all those things about a person I was in a R with, I certainly would not want them back.
AT, maybe you should take your thread back in the direction you want it to go.
Guess you missed the few posts where AT thanked us men here who post to him.
But you always have selective reading turned on when there are men posting to men or have opinions that ruffle you feathers.
What is AT trying to teach her ?
That he is not some option..
Wow that is so reeking of control and one-upmanship.
I think an affair and leaving a marriage is not usually the best way to build or repair a Relationship.... but your millage may vary.
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