"When i die, i want to be remembered as a good Wife, a good Mom and a good Family member".

She wrote that in September, 2008. 2 months before her mom got ill and eventually died.

That was the person she was and i still want to find that buried character once again.

I really am taking this detachment and GAL seriously.

I SO Much wanted to call her later today, but didn't. I know that would be pursuing.

I didn't.

But i want to so badly.

I spent alot of time yesterday and earlier today reading through the Stickied threads, especially the ones in the mid-life crisis section, the one for MLC 101 for dummies and some other threads


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012