It's difficult to keep love in the equation when there is so much pain involved. I think it's important to keep that loving element in mind otherwise, we become judgmental and punitive and then what we end up doing here is control or manipulate the other. As Labug says, not a good way to build or repair a R.

You don't have to do or say anything now AT. Just take a step back and gather your thoughts. Where were you last week? Where are you now? Where do you want to be next week (or next month, or next year)?

Are we doing this DBing thing just to get our WASs back so we can get our own way or do we want to become better people in order to have a successful life, which might include a R with our WAS.

We need to put love back in our situations. Only this can help us see our pain through and begin the healing process.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then