My Most Important Week Yet

[labug]

AT's wife is now learning that she is not in-charge anymore.

She probably never was.

We don't know what she's learning. We know what AT is trying to teach her but we don't know what she might learn from this. The whole "teaching a lesson" concept reeks of control and one-upmanship. Not usually the best way to build or repair a R.

CV, I agree. If I felt all those things about a person I was in a R with, I certainly would not want them back.

AT, maybe you should take your thread back in the direction you want it to go.