Hey 25 and Arsene- I look forward to going over your posts but I just spoke with W and I first wanted to give a play by play.


Conversation with W-

M- How’s it going?
W-It’s going fine.
M-No W, really. How’s it going?
W- It hasn’t been easy.
M- I understand, I really do.
W-That’s all you ever say Rough.
M-It’s time W, it’s time to talk, it’s long overdue.
W- About what, divorce?
M- No W, do you think I care?
W-I thought you might?
M-Well, I do care W. I love you W and I will never give up on you no matter what.
W-Well I assumed that you’ve been dating someone else.
M- I am not going to mince my words and I know you wont believe me but I am married and Ive been behaving as such.
W-I don’t know what to say right now.
M- I understand, you don’t have to say anything if you don’t want.
W-I am going to schedule an appointment for us to see the joint councilor.

All in all it went fine. I wish W would have talked more but in her defense, I caught her off guard. She was crying through most of the interaction. As Denver said, I might have a slight chance if I see an ounce of emotion. I held it together fairly well, it was obvious that I was slightly up tight and I did tear up just a little bit. At the end, we said our goodbye. Even though she didn’t say much, I am really glad the interaction took place. Any thoughts would be appreciated.