Contrary to what newman says, I did NOT say reclaim the marital bed in my post AML.

If you don't really want to file - what can you do to focus less on the sitch and more on what you can change/do for you so that you are less frustrated.
You are now at 100posts - time for a new thread maybe focusing on you, identifying what has worked these past 6 wks (that you can do more of) and what hasn't and that includes what has worked for your PMA, GAL etc as well as W and relationship...

Just my thoughts

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"