What exactly is "inappropriate time?" Is that her definition or yours?
It's in my thread...the fight that happened the day she moved out. Basically she got drunk at a lunch meeting with 2 guys she's working with and the discussion turned into some less than appropriate topics. It's my definition, but I think most people would agree that it was out of bounds.
With that said, I'm not really worried about either of those guys, but she is sensitive to how I feel/felt about the incident, so that is good in itself.
She has surprised me a couple of times in positive ways since we discussed building trust, and it's really been pretty awesome. In so many ways she seems like the woman I married again.
To top it off, the sermon at church this morning was all about forgiveness and man did that hit home. It was like our pastor was talking directly to us.
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
What is going on with your court date? I assume nothing has changed regarding that...
Nothing new that I know of. I think that I will call this coming week and find out exactly what has happened. I was hoping that if it was a mistake, W would fix it and just let me know. But honestly, I think even if it was an error somehow, she'll leave it out there because removing it means making a decision, and I don't think she's ready to do that yet.
Still, things seem to be going really well. I mentioned before that I may start "applying some slight pressure" in terms of DBing, such as saying ILU occasionally and see how she responds.
