Denver, your exactly right about being “dim” because she only lives 5 minutes away and we exchange the kids on a regular basis.
I will see W in about 5 hours. I don’t think it will be a problem to talk with her for a couple minutes because I know she wants to understand what I am thinking.

I am going to simply say, I do care for you, I do love you and I am not giving up on you, no matter what happens.
She could say, “why didn’t you show it?” I think the best response would be, W, you wanted your space and that’s what Ive given you.