I know i would change plans at the drop of a hat.

I am torn between encouraging and fostering a good co-parenting arrangement and enabling.

I am conflicted as to why she tried texting me last week, the one i didn't get and therefore did not respond to.

I am confused if she is reaching out for help with her drinking, due to my friends wife having overdosed and now being in a coma for 7 days.

Is that what she momentarily was seeking from me?

I may have made a mistake by not exclusively validating her feelings, by adding in how much i cared when i saw her doing the same thing to herself and that i was helpless to do anything about it.

Should i now contact her and see how her feelings are doing?

Thank you so much for the supportive words and understanding.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012