I am torn between encouraging and fostering a good co-parenting arrangement and enabling.
I am conflicted as to why she tried texting me last week, the one i didn't get and therefore did not respond to.
I am confused if she is reaching out for help with her drinking, due to my friends wife having overdosed and now being in a coma for 7 days.
Is that what she momentarily was seeking from me?
I may have made a mistake by not exclusively validating her feelings, by adding in how much i cared when i saw her doing the same thing to herself and that i was helpless to do anything about it.
Should i now contact her and see how her feelings are doing?
Thank you so much for the supportive words and understanding.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012