I like your new thread title. It is so true...they hide behind the curtain w/masks and you never know which mask they are going to wear to the "Ball". They do not realize just how good they have/had it w/their spouses.
As for the bag of clothes...maybe he's doing some fall housecleaning and has opted to get rid of them. Has he gained or lost weight? Don't be surprised if he comes out wearing clothes that only a teenager or young adult would wear. He may be getting to the stage of changing his clothing tastes and some do get body piercing and tattoos. Oh, let's not forget those who have all of their body hair removed. Not trying to shock you this morning, but he may very well be entering a new phase.
BTW, have you noticed anything missing from any of the rooms? Sometimes they tend to sneak around and pick up items that you don't readily miss until you actually go to use them. He could be squirreling away some items for his "running away from home" time.
I hope that you have a pleasant day and your sense of humor remains intact.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
