Glad you enjoyed the run and like the positive reaction from W.
That looked like a good convo before the festival IMO - I like to know what page we are on - both of you validating and respecting each other's views. I haven't reviewed your entire thread so forgive me if I ask obvious qs - why does she NEED the validation from OM and not you? How often does she get that fix from OM? I think it's good for her to see a C - did she ask you to help her find one?

I'm not too good on advice about Rs AFA as...well you've seen my mess! But you sound to be on the right track for your PMA so keep doing more of that.

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"