hello mkb23, i'm sorry you're in this sitch. in reading your conversation with H, above, what came to my mind is the way the two of you communicate. it's filled with lots of blaming and accusations from both of you. also, i think you may want to stay away from R talks for a while. don't get baited.
my H and i figured out a long time ago (because of a joke we heard) that "fine" from a woman means you're in trouble and "whatever" means F... Y...! it's not good in an adult conversation. try not to start any sentence with "you"; you did this, you did that.
"nope" is kind of surly, too.
i see a lot of promise for you in your sitch. i think your main problem is the two of you have trouble communicating in a way that is not defensive. maybe you could get some books on communication?
good luck! ((()))
i hope i haven't offended you.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
