About to separate....

[dorightman]

Had a conversation with w last night before bed. She told me she was not feeling anything for me love wise and that she still felt restricted by my presence in the house. She said she felt confused by me and why I was still sticking around with "someone who felt nothing for you". She rehashed the reasons why she fell out of love in the past and now the love is gone. I told her we are still married and that marriages go through ups and downs and that I was prepared to go through this tough time with her. She said she was sick of me telling her about the ups and downs of marriage. She asked me if I love her , why I don't let her go. I said, your free to go,but I don't want you to go. I asked her to give us more time and told her I would give her her space in the house. She feels nothing but negative feelings for me. This really hurts!