^^^^^^ My sister keeps telling me the same thing. ^^^^^^^

The guy I told plainly I didn't want to go out with anymore called me a bunch of times. I talked to him a few times, and then he called me drunk and was being horrid. I finally just hung up on him. I realized I am letting him waste my time. And I just don't need to be polite to everyone.

And most certainly don't need to be nice to someone who alarmed me so much that the red flags were on fire! But it has me pondering why I think I need to be nice to people.

I had a bad experierence today at McDonalds. And came away feeling mean. Why do I feel mean when someone else makes a mistake and I just ask for something simple like my order to be corrected? And I thought this girl messed it up when she was taking my order, and I had asked her to repeat back my order, to ensure she got it right. She didn't.

So I feel bad when I'm nice and bad when I'm mean. YIKES

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
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