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Re: Sitting on the Blanket needgrace #2286870 10/07/12 05:18 AM
Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,356 N NLW Member
NLW Member N Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 1,356	I don't think we can trust what they say/do until they 'come out' of the fog. This may never happen, but in those sitches that I've read where it does, the WASs do seem to have enough personal insight to allow the LBSs to build trust again. Busting, I know just what you mean about being scared of the niceness. We're always damned if we do and damned if we don't in our current circumstances, I find. If I show empathy, I'm being patronising; if I have a different view, I'm not listening; if I think that he's had some insight and might be recognising the hurt he's caused, I'm in for a nasty shock. Guess it's just another reason to try to keep the focus on ourselves, continue to do our thing, and not react to what they do.

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Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 06:39 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Breakdown	09/25/12 07:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/25/12 07:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 08:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	longrun	09/25/12 08:40 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	figure-it-out	09/25/12 09:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/26/12 12:34 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	JustStunned	09/26/12 08:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	09/26/12 09:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:15 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/27/12 08:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 09:12 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	09/28/12 01:17 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 12:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 03:06 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 03:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 04:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 09:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	09/28/12 09:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/28/12 10:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/29/12 02:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 05:09 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:00 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	09/29/12 07:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:29 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 12:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/30/12 12:46 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 06:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 07:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/30/12 11:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/01/12 01:10 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:21 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/01/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/01/12 06:22 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/01/12 01:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	10/01/12 01:59 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/01/12 07:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/02/12 05:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/02/12 01:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 05:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/02/12 05:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 06:27 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/02/12 07:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 10:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/03/12 08:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/06/12 06:02 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/06/12 07:38 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/08/12 07:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/08/12 08:43 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/08/12 09:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/08/12 09:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/08/12 09:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/09/12 02:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/09/12 06:31 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 08:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/09/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/10/12 01:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 03:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 05:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 06:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/10/12 06:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 06:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/10/12 09:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/10/12 09:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/12/12 08:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/12/12 11:32 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:24 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:48 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 07:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 09:47 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/13/12 10:15 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 10:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/13/12 01:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/13/12 04:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/13/12 05:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/14/12 12:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/14/12 03:59 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/14/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/14/12 03:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/14/12 06:05 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/15/12 01:52 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Wendylon	10/15/12 07:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/15/12 10:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 05:06 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:52 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/09/12 07:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 07:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/06/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 04:44 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/07/12 05:18 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 03:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/06/12 08:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 06:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:16 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:49 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 06:46 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:10 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	09/27/12 12:17 AM

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