Midlife for Dummies

[Am I Too Late]

This was a very accurate description of the past 3 years of my life.

Too bad for all the LBS's because it is so much of a one sided effort with the "Reward" continually being further betrayed and rejected.

I feel pathetic for allowing myself to be manipulated for so long and trying finally to detach after she moved out 7 3/4 months ago and find how i still get triggered so frequently.

The only other article i ever read that hits the nail on the head so precisely, is "Demonizing Your Mate", on a former, now offline blog by someone named BeerLove.

So sad that this has to be our own Hell of a reality.

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