Accepting reality, moving on with my life

[breakdownbill]

Been away from these boards for a couple of days.

Bond I do respect your opinion and I wanted to apologize for my tone towards you in my last post.

The children have been my main focus through all of this and I try to spend as much quality time with them every day.

I think a lot of what unbidden said is true, just the other day my D9 said to W, 'why don't you ever hug and kiss daddy goodbye in the morning'? So yeah, she knows something's not right and might have already started to connect the dots.

Today we went to the movies as a family and we had fun, we've actually been getting on better my W and I since I told her I wanted a divorce.

Maybe it's the validation she was looking for, or that there is less pressure on the situation. I don't know what it is, but things feel a bit different.

We seem to be a bit more open with each other about future plans and stuff, which is good.


Bill