So lets get this straight. You man is clingy... So you leave and have an affair and you want him to be even more clingy to win you back.
I'm sure there's something between "clingy" and "don't let the door hit you in the @ss on the way out." I'm just saying that I don't often see the sort of reaction described by AT in his convo with his W. It sounded like she was trying to communicate something she needed and wasn't getting, in a situation where it sounds like open communication was always a problem. BIG red flag, from my perspective. If the attitude is going to be all "gloom and doom" and tar-and-feather the WAS as Starsky lays it out in his post, then I don't know why anyone ever bothers to try to save their M.
Where the hell did I ever say THAT???
I'm beginning to think you have some other issue with me, CV. I'm only sharing what WORKED for me, and for other men in these situations. To be frank, I think your wayward thinking, and emphasis on FEELINGS, isn't helpful. But that's up to Alk.
