My Most Important Week Yet

[Denver_2010]

CV does have a point. Dark didn't work for my H IN THE BEGINNING.

Going dark may not have been the reason that the table have turned, but it was part of the process. And the table DID turn.

There is a time to be dark, a time to let your WAW do all of the initiating of contact, and even a time to do a little pursuing... It is all part of the process.

The problem I have with AT's sitch, though, is the OM. If there were an OW in my sitch with H, I would have to stay dark. Hell, I'd be worse than dark. I admire anyone who can even think about R knowing there's OP. I'd move on.

And, coincidently, once I started moving on, H wanted me back.

As Starsky would say BINGO!