Those last few posts are amazing. It is such a balancing act when there is OP involved. You don't want to look weak, but if you go at it too strong, you will end up in the same spot as being weak. And that is without your spouse moving in your direction.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on