CV does have a point. Dark didn't work for my H IN THE BEGINNING. He thought I didn't care. Now that the tables are turned, so to speak, I let him initiate but I never ignore.

The problem I have with AT's sitch, though, is the OM. If there were an OW in my sitch with H, I would have to stay dark. Hell, I'd be worse than dark. I admire anyone who can even think about R knowing there's OP. I'd move on.

And, coincidently, once I started moving on, H wanted me back.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing