I think we feel guilty because we're supposed to be "perfect" and if our H's have to help us, then we're not.

We may feel resentment because if our H's weren't in the picture, we would do less cleaning, less grocery shopping (eat cereal for dinner), and less laundry.

Our "roll" traps us.

It's one heck of a spot to be in. What's the solution?

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing